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WHY FLIRT?
Do you want to improve your social skillls, romantic life, and  friendships?  Well, flirting is the answer!
 
WHAT IS FLIRTING?
Webster's dictionary defines flirting as "acting amorously without serious intent." It is playful, charming, light and fun. Flirting is a charming and honest expression of interest in others... and who can resist being the center of your attention?  Need and desperation are very unattractive. Lighten up. Like sand in your hand, squeeze it tightly and it leaves you, but let is rest and it stays with you. It is the same with people and the essence of being a good flirt.

WHO CAN FLIRT?
Everyone, all the time. To some, flirting comes naturally, but for many it has to be learned.  I say "baby you were born to flirt."  Watch babies with their peek-a-boo eyes and coy smiles.  Flirts exhibit positive body language, know how to approach and are approachable.  Flirts are interesting people with good conversational and listening skills.  They do not suffer from the disease of "seriousity" and are able to laugh at themselves.
 
 WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT SUSAN

“A well written and concise but comprehensive guide to everything you would want to know about encouraging friends and lovers. Most practical and sensible. Try it and see!”

 

Albert Ellis Ph.D, a pioneer in Cognitive Therapy and founder of the Institute for Rational Emotive Therapy.

 

“Susan Rabin uses warmth, wit and wisdom to help people learn not just how to flirt but how to connect with other human beings. There are valuable lessons here--and not just for singles.”

 

Claire Berman, author of "Making it as a Stepparent" and "A Hole in the Heart."

 

“Susan Rabin says, "the basic flirting cues are much the same the world over, from the jungles of New Guinea to the cocktail lounges of Manhattan. The coy look, the head toss, the lip lick--preening. Rabin helps others with Flirt-o-phobia and makes learning the basics of flirting fun.”

 

Boston Globe

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